I have had the unique experience of transitioning from Middle School as an instructional coach to Elementary as an Assistant Principal.
If you put a kindergarten parent side by side with a parent of an entering middle schooler, I am sure their fears and concerns would be very similar.
One thing I think educators and parents have in common is we often rescue our children when rescuing them only inhibits their potential.
When I was at my district’s convocation, George Couros reminded us of the importance of the learner’s struggle and the learner working through the “problem.” He showed us a video where a boy had created a “marble maze” with several dynamic and intricate pieces. The boy hypothesized that it would take him at least 100 attempts to make the maze successful. On his 4th attempt he achieved success. The setting of his goal, working through the challenges and momentary failures, and then being successful on his 4th try was amazing. Why, because he persevered and never thought “I can’t do” only that “I can do.”
I wonder, if we had seen this kiddos plan and intervened as his educator or as his parent, would we have limited him unintentionally in an effort to shield him from “failure?” Yet, without any input or intervening this child was successful and celebrated, that while his first three attempts were not a successful attempt, his fourth was, and was way sooner than his projected one hundred attempts before he reached success.
I have come to see how I as a parent, educator and coach can either encourage growth and a “can do” attitude or limit it (even if my intentions are to protect the learner). This past weekend, just before our district began our new school year, I learned of how Target took a new approach to their Back to School advertising campaign. They believed in the “can do” of children ranging in ages 8-17 and let those children develop, design and ultimately launch a series of seven commercial.
Here’s what happened when coroporate Target went from a corporate advertising team to a advertising dream team of students:
My favorite part of this is that they felt that the adults “listenened” and “learned something from us.”
Going forward in this school year, how can we change the moments when we say “I don’t think our students/children can” to opportunities where we say “I know you can!”?
I challenge anyone reading this to stop the next time you catch yourself thinking my child/student can’t and re-think… how can I provide the opportunity so my child/student CAN? It will be a great adventure and in the process our children/student will know that we listened and we learned something from them.
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This inspires me!
Thank you! I am so excited about what our kiddos can do this year!!!